What he says is going to lead to some major hurt.
when one when both parties agree that the relationship isn’t working out, but what’s even worse .
You feel blindsided when your boyfriend/girlfriend wants to breakup, and you go through your mind trying to see if there were any indications that they weren’t happy in the relationship. Were there signs you just missed or did you ?
Maybe you and your partner were going through a challenging time in the relationship and you thought things would work out. Surprise! They worked out… at least for .
Would it hurt less if you were keyed into exactly how they were feeling? They were dropping all kinds of hints that you just choose not to recognize. He had for months, and if you’re honest with yourself, don’t you feel a little relieved that it’s beginning to come to the surface? And in one way or another, the problems in your relationship will be solved?
Think back to the days when things were just beginning, and how easy and fun everything was. It was quite a difference from the tension-filled hours you now spend together, and how hard it is just to get him to make plans .
When you’re the one being left, no matter how dissatisfied you may be in the relationship, it hurts. And while you shouldn’t be paranoid waiting for whatever shoe to drop, you should be aware of the subtle changes that occur with your partner’s behavior, especially in what he says.
subtle things he says and can provide a guide to what he might say that indicates he’s not happy in the relationship, and that he’s making a plan to get out. Here are the , according to his .
Aries (March 21 – April 19): “Damn it, why did you do that? What’s the matter with you?”
Taurus (April 20 – May 20): “No, I can’t do that.”
Gemini (May 21 – June 20): “We’ll get together soon, I’m just very busy at work.”
Cancer (June 21 – July 22): “Maybe we’re too different.”
Leo (July 23 – August 22): “You wouldn’t believe the day I had today.”
Virgo (August 23 – September 22): “I’m sorry, what were you saying?”
Libra (September 23 – October 22): “I’ve invited some friends to join us for dinner.”
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): “Oh, you had spinach in your teeth all night? I didn’t notice.”
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21): “Yeah, about that trip to Japan… I don’t think I can make it.”
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): “I meant to text/message/call you back.”
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): “Wow, the weekend flew by. Maybe we can get together on Wednesday for lunch.”
Pisces (February 19 – March 20): “Maybe we’re just not meant to be.”